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Japanese Proverbs to Give Life Advice
Japanese proverbs for life advice help express a lesson that is concise, memorable, and not too preachy. This selection fits moments when readers want to offer direction while leaving room for the other person to think.
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同床異夢
doushou imuTo be in the same position or working together while having different thoughts or hidden goals.
同舟相救う
doshu ai sukuuPeople in the same difficult situation should help one another.
遠交近攻
en kou kin kouA strategic policy of forming alliances with distant parties while taking aggressive action against immediate neighbors.
縁なき衆生は度し難し
en naki shujo wa doshigatashiEven Buddha cannot save those with whom there is no connection, meaning it is impossible to help people who refuse to listen.
遠慮は無沙汰
enryo wa busataBeing too reserved and refraining from contact can lead to becoming estranged.
遠慮無ければ近憂あり
enryo nakereba kinyu ariIf you do not plan for the distant future, you will certainly face trouble in the near future.
偃鼠河に飲めども腹を満たすに過ぎず
enso kawa ni nomedomo hara o mitasu ni wa sugizuEven with an abundance of resources, an individual can only consume or use what is necessary for their own measure.
遠水近火を救わず
ensui kinka o sukuwazuHelp that is far away cannot provide relief for an immediate emergency.
縁と月日の末を待て
en to tsukihi no sue o mateOne should wait patiently for the right connection and timing rather than rushing important matters.
得手に鼻突く
ete ni hana tsukuTo boast or show off about something one is good at.
得手に帆を揚げる
ete ni ho o ageruTo enthusiastically seize a perfect opportunity to use one's special skills or talents.
栄耀の餅の皮
eiyo no mochi no kawaBecoming so accustomed to luxury that one treats once-precious or expensive things with indifference or carelessness.
父母の恩は山よりも高く海よりも深し
fubo no on wa yama yori mo takaku umi yori mo fukashiThe debt of gratitude owed to one's parents is immeasurably vast and impossible to fully repay.
笛吹けども踊らず
fue fukedo mo odorazuA situation where efforts to lead or motivate others receive no response.
夫婦は二世
fufu wa niseThe bond between a husband and wife lasts not only in this life but continues into the next life.
夫婦喧嘩は犬も食わぬ
fuufu genka wa inu mo kuwanuOutsiders should not interfere in marital disputes because the couple will likely reconcile on their own.
不言実行
fugen jikkoCarrying out what needs to be done silently without making excuses or talking about it.
河豚は食いたし命は惜しし
fugu wa kuitashi inochi wa oshishiExpresses a conflict where one desires something attractive but is held back by the fear of associated risks.
不偏不党
fuhen futouMaintaining a fair and neutral position without siding with any specific ideology or group.
風樹の歎
fuju no tanThe deep regret of being unable to show filial piety because one's parents have already passed away.
風光明媚
fuukou meibiA description of landscape scenery that is exceptionally clear, bright, and beautiful.
舟に刻みて剣を求む
fune ni kizamite ken o motomuRefers to being stubbornly inflexible and failing to adapt to changing circumstances.
風林火山
fuu rin ka zanA strategic principle advising to be swift as the wind, silent as a forest, fierce as fire, and immovable as a mountain.
風声鶴唳
fuusei kakureiTo be terrified by even the slightest sound or sign of something.
不即不離
fu soku fu riA state of maintaining a balanced distance where two things are closely related but remain distinct.
不撓不屈
futo fukutsuPossessing a strong will that remains unbroken and steadfast despite any hardship or adversity.
眼光紙背に徹す
gankou shihai ni tessuTo understand the true intent behind written words through deep insight.
合従連衡
gasshou renkouThe shifting formation and dissolution of alliances among groups based on changing circumstances.
芸は道によって賢し
gei wa michi ni yotte kashikoshiIn any specialized field, those who follow that path are the most knowledgeable.
芸は身に付く
gei wa mi ni tsukuSkills and knowledge acquired remain as personal assets throughout one's life.
芸は身を助ける
gei wa mi o tasukeruAcquired skills and knowledge can provide support for one's livelihood in times of need.
芸術は長く人生は短し
geijutsu wa nagaku jinsei wa mijikashiHuman life is brief, but great works of art endure long after their creator is gone.
下駄を預ける
geta o azukeruEntrusting the processing or judgment of a matter entirely to someone else.
義を見てせざるは勇無きなり
gi o mite sezaru wa yuu naki nariKnowing the right thing to do but failing to act on it is proof of cowardice.
郷に入っては郷に従え
gou ni itte wa gou ni shitagaeWhen in a new place, follow the local customs and manners.
五臓六腑
gozo roppuOne's entire body or the depths of one's soul.
牛耳を執る
gyuji o toruTo take the lead or hold actual power within an organization or group.
破竹の勢い
hachiku no ikioiAdvancing with fierce, unstoppable momentum.
始めあるものは必ず終わりあり
hajime aru mono wa kanarazu owari ariEverything that has a beginning must eventually come to an end.
始めちょろちょろ中ぱっぱ赤子泣くとも蓋取るな
hajime chorochoro naka pappa akago nakutomo futa torunaA lesson on the importance of following a process carefully from start to finish without losing focus.
始めが大事
hajime ga daijiThe initial approach or starting point of an endeavor significantly influences the final outcome.
始めよければ終わりよし
hajime yokereba owari yoshiIf a task or project starts well, it is likely to result in a successful conclusion.
話し上手は聞き上手
hanashijozu wa kikijozuA person who is skilled at speaking is also a person who listens well to others.
働かざる者食うべからず
hatarakazaru mono kuu bekarazuThose who do not work have no right to receive the benefits of food or livelihood.
早寝早起き病知らず
hayane hayaoki yamai shirazuGoing to bed early and waking up early leads to a healthy life free from sickness.
始めは処女の如く後は脱兎の如し
hajime wa shojo no gotoku nochi wa datto no gotoshiStart quietly and cautiously to put others off guard, then act with sudden speed once an opportunity arises.
腹も身の内
hara mo mi no uchiThe stomach is an integral part of your body, so overeating will damage your health.
腹の皮が張れば目の皮がたるむ
hara no kawa ga hareba me no kawa ga tarumuEating until one is full makes them feel sleepy.