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Japanese Proverbs to Recommend Restraint

Japanese proverbs for recommending restraint help discuss limits, emotion, overreaction, and the cost of going too far. This selection gives readers calm language for slowing down an impulse.

Japanese Proverbs to Recommend Restraint

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暴飲暴食

bou in boushoku

Excessive or immoderate drinking and eating.

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沈黙は金

chinmoku wa kane

Remaining silent is sometimes more valuable than speaking eloquently.

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蛇足

dasoku

Something redundant or unnecessary that provides no benefit and may even spoil the result.

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偃鼠河に飲めども腹を満たすに過ぎず

enso kawa ni nomedomo hara o mitasu ni wa sugizu

Even with an abundance of resources, an individual can only consume or use what is necessary for their own measure.

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夫婦喧嘩は犬も食わぬ

fuufu genka wa inu mo kuwanu

Outsiders should not interfere in marital disputes because the couple will likely reconcile on their own.

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不偏不党

fuhen futou

Maintaining a fair and neutral position without siding with any specific ideology or group.

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腹も身の内

hara mo mi no uchi

The stomach is an integral part of your body, so overeating will damage your health.

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言いたい事は明日言え

iitai koto wa asu ie

Think calmly and wait until tomorrow before speaking while emotional, to avoid regret.

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怒りは敵と思え

ikari wa teki to omoe

Control your anger because acting on it can lead to your own ruin.

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隠忍自重

innin jicho

Patiently enduring suffering or difficulty while refraining from acting rashly or impulsively.

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一杯は人酒を飲む、二杯は酒酒を飲む、三杯は酒人を飲む

ippai wa hito sake o nomu, nihai wa sake sake o nomu, sanbai wa sake hito o nomu

While the first drink is controlled by the person, subsequent drinks lead to a loss of self-control until the alcohol eventually dominates the drinker.

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負けるが勝ち

makeru ga kachi

Yielding a trivial argument or short-term loss can lead to a long-term victory or benefit.