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Proverb / Kotowaza

一杯は人酒を飲む、二杯は酒酒を飲む、三杯は酒人を飲む

ReadingいっぱいはひとさけをのむにはいはさけさけをのむさんばいはさけひとをのむRomajiippai wa hito sake o nomu, nihai wa sake sake o nomu, sanbai wa sake hito o nomu

While the first drink is controlled by the person, subsequent drinks lead to a loss of self-control until the alcohol eventually dominates the drinker.

With the first cup, the person drinks the sake; with the second cup, the sake drinks the sake; with the third cup, the sake drinks the person.

Quick Answer

While the first drink is controlled by the person, subsequent drinks lead to a loss of self-control until the alcohol eventually dominates the drinker.

Literal Image
With the first cup, the person drinks the sake; with the second cup, the sake drinks the sake; with the third cup, the sake drinks the person.
Closest Equivalent
First the man takes a drink, then the drink takes a drink, then the drink takes the man
How to Use It
Used to advise moderation when drinking or to warn someone about the point where they might lose control of their behavior due to alcohol.

Meaning

This proverb illustrates the progressive stages of intoxication and the erosion of self-discipline. Initially, a person consciously chooses to drink, but by the second glass, the momentum of drinking takes over. Ultimately, the alcohol consumes the person's judgment and will, serving as a warning against the dangers of overconsumption.

Literal Image

With the first cup, the person drinks the sake; with the second cup, the sake drinks the sake; with the third cup, the sake drinks the person.

Equivalent Proverbs

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Very close✓ Reviewed

First the man takes a drink, then the drink takes a drink, then the drink takes the man

A nearly identical western equivalent describing the same progression.

How to Use It

Used to advise moderation when drinking or to warn someone about the point where they might lose control of their behavior due to alcohol.

Tone

Cautionary and advisory.

Examples

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一杯は人酒を飲む、二杯は酒酒を飲む、三杯は酒人を飲むという。今夜は二杯までにしておこう。

They say the first cup is the man drinking, the second is the drink drinking, and the third is the drink drinking the man. I'll stop at two cups tonight.

Learning Notes

Key Vocabulary

Estimated LevelN2Confidence: Medium
Estimate, not an official JLPT list

While the vocabulary consists of basic words for counting and drinking, the repetitive structure and the shifting relationship between subject and object require intermediate grammar comprehension.

一杯

いっぱい / ippai

one cup

さけ / sake

alcohol; sake

飲む

のむ / nomu

to drink

ひと / hito

person

Usage Profile

NeutralCautionary

Usage note: This is a specific warning about drinking and may not apply to other forms of overindulgence.

Misread Risk

Do not assume the 'cups' refer only to small sake cups; it refers metaphorically to any quantity that leads to loss of control.

Search As

一杯は人酒を飲む、二杯は酒酒を飲む、三杯は酒人を飲むいっぱいはひとさけをのむにはいはさけさけをのむさんばいはさけひとをのむippai wa hito sake o nomuippai wa hito sake o nomu, nihai wa sake sake o nomu, sanbai wa sake hito o nomuippai-wa-hito-sake-o-nomu-nihai-wa-sake-sake-o-nomu-sanbai-wa-sake-hito-o-nomu

Kanji in This Proverb

Related Proverbs

Similar酒は飲んでも飲まれるな

Origin

This saying serves as a warning about one's relationship with alcohol. It describes a progression: at the first cup, the individual is the subjective agent drinking; by the second, they are being pulled along by the drink; and by the third, they are entirely dominated by its power. Similar expressions are found globally, representing a universal teaching on the importance of moderation in drinking.

Index

Topics, Situations, and Tags

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Topics

Moderation and BalanceCaution and RiskHuman Nature
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Situations

Warn SomeoneRecommend RestraintGive Life Advice
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Tags

⚠️Warnings & Caution⚔️Life & General Wisdom🧠Philosophy

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Published
2026-03-15
Updated
2026-05-08
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