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Japanese Proverbs About Moderation and Balance

Japanese proverbs about moderation deal with limits, restraint, too much, too little, and the trouble that follows excess. This selection helps readers find calming advice that still has firmness.

Japanese Proverbs: Moderation and Balance

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虻蜂取らず

abu hachi torazu

Failing to obtain anything by being greedy and trying to grab two things at once.

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あちら立てればこちらが立たぬ

achira tatereba kochira ga tatanu

Satisfying one side results in a disadvantage for the other.

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諦めは心の養生

akirame wa kokoro no youjou

Accepting what cannot be changed is vital for maintaining mental health.

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頭の蠅を追え

atama no hae o oe

Handle your own problems before trying to fix or criticize others.

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熱いが御馳走

atsui ga gochiso

Food is at its most delicious and is considered a true treat when eaten while it is still piping hot.

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忙中自ずから閑あり

bochuu onozukara kan ari

Even during a busy period, moments of leisure or spare time naturally occur.

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暴飲暴食

bou in boushoku

Excessive or immoderate drinking and eating.

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沈黙は金

chinmoku wa kane

Remaining silent is sometimes more valuable than speaking eloquently.

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蛇足

dasoku

Something redundant or unnecessary that provides no benefit and may even spoil the result.

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偃鼠河に飲めども腹を満たすに過ぎず

enso kawa ni nomedomo hara o mitasu ni wa sugizu

Even with an abundance of resources, an individual can only consume or use what is necessary for their own measure.

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選んで粕を掴む

erande kasu o tsukamu

To end up with something of poor quality despite careful selection or being overly picky.

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栄耀の餅の皮

eiyo no mochi no kawa

Becoming so accustomed to luxury that one treats once-precious or expensive things with indifference or carelessness.

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不偏不党

fuhen futou

Maintaining a fair and neutral position without siding with any specific ideology or group.

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不即不離

fu soku fu ri

A state of maintaining a balanced distance where two things are closely related but remain distinct.

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牛飲馬食

gyuuin bashoku

To eat and drink in enormous quantities.

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腹も身の内

hara mo mi no uchi

The stomach is an integral part of your body, so overeating will damage your health.

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一汁一菜

ichiju issai

A meal consisting of one soup and one side dish, representing a simple and frugal lifestyle.

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言いたい事は明日言え

iitai koto wa asu ie

Think calmly and wait until tomorrow before speaking while emotional, to avoid regret.

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怒りは敵と思え

ikari wa teki to omoe

Control your anger because acting on it can lead to your own ruin.

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一杯は人酒を飲む、二杯は酒酒を飲む、三杯は酒人を飲む

ippai wa hito sake o nomu, nihai wa sake sake o nomu, sanbai wa sake hito o nomu

While the first drink is controlled by the person, subsequent drinks lead to a loss of self-control until the alcohol eventually dominates the drinker.

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二兎を追う者は一兎をも得ず

nito o ou mono wa itto mo ezu

Attempting to achieve two different goals at the same time can result in failing to achieve either of them.

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残り物には福がある

nokori mono ni wa fuku ga aru

Good things are found among the items others have left behind.