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Japanese Proverbs to Teach Humility

Japanese proverbs for teaching humility help discuss personal limits, continued learning, and the danger of thinking one knows everything. This selection gives readers a way to advise without publicly humiliating someone.

Japanese Proverbs to Teach Humility

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仇を恩で報ずる

ada o on de houzuru

Choosing to respond to harm or ill-treatment with kindness and favors instead of seeking revenge.

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哀矜懲創

aikyou chousou

To pity someone who has failed or committed a fault while also disciplining them to prevent a recurrence.

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朝に道を聞かば夕べに死すとも可なり

ashita ni michi o kikaba yuube ni shisuto mo kanari

If one can understand the Truth or the correct path of humanity in the morning, they can die content that very evening.

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頭の蠅を追え

atama no hae o oe

Handle your own problems before trying to fix or criticize others.

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過ちては改むるに憚ること勿れ

ayamachite wa aratamuru ni habakaru koto nakare

If you realize you have made a mistake, you should correct it immediately without worrying about your reputation or saving face.

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忠言は耳に逆らう

chugen wa mimi ni sakarau

Sincere advice is difficult to hear and hard to accept.

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駑馬に鞭打つ

doba ni muchiutsu

Forcing someone with limited ability to work harder, or humbly expressing one's resolve to do their best despite a lack of talent.

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蝦の鯛交じり

ebi no tai majiri

A person of lower status or ability being present among high-ranking or highly skilled individuals.

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偃鼠河に飲めども腹を満たすに過ぎず

enso kawa ni nomedomo hara o mitasu ni wa sugizu

Even with an abundance of resources, an individual can only consume or use what is necessary for their own measure.

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父母の恩は山よりも高く海よりも深し

fubo no on wa yama yori mo takaku umi yori mo fukashi

The debt of gratitude owed to one's parents is immeasurably vast and impossible to fully repay.

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郷に入っては郷に従え

gou ni itte wa gou ni shitagae

When in a new place, follow the local customs and manners.

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下手の横好き

heta no yokozuki

Being very enthusiastic about a hobby or activity despite not being particularly skilled at it.

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低き所に水溜まる

hikuki tokoro ni mizu tamaru

Just as water naturally flows to the lowest point, people and good fortune naturally gather around those who remain humble.

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貧者の一灯

hinja no itto

A sincere gift from someone with little is more valuable than a large, hollow gift from someone with much.

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顰に効う

hisomi ni narau

To blindly imitate others without considering the quality of the action, or to follow someone's lead as a humble gesture.

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人のふり見てわがふり直せ

hito no furi mite waga furi naose

Observe the actions of others and use them as a guide to improve or correct your own behavior.

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医は意なり

i wa i nari

Medicine is as much about the doctor's spirit and compassion as it is about technical skill.

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井の中の蛙大海を知らず

i no naka no kawazu taikai o shirazu

Refers to someone who is narrow-minded or lacks perspective because they only know their own small world.

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一日の長

ichijitsu no cho

Having a slight edge or superiority in skill or experience compared to others.

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犬は三日飼えば三年恩を忘れぬ

inu wa mikka kaeba sannen on o wasurenu

Even a brief act of kindness is remembered for a very long time.

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蛙の子は蛙

kaeru no ko wa kaeru

Children inevitably resemble their parents in character, ability, and lifestyle.

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河童の川流れ

kappa no kawanagare

Even the greatest experts can make mistakes in their own field of expertise.

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聞くは一時の恥聞かぬは一生の恥

kiku wa ittoki no haji kikanu wa issho no haji

Asking a question may be embarrassing for a moment, but remaining ignorant brings shame for a lifetime.

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苦しい時の神頼み

kurushii toki no kamidanomi

Turning to divine help only when in trouble, despite ignoring it at other times.

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目くそ鼻くそを笑う

mekuso hanakuso o warau

Criticizing someone for a flaw that you also possess without realizing it.

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良薬は口に苦し

ryoyaku wa kuchi ni nigashi

Sincere advice and constructive criticism may be painful to hear, but they are beneficial for one's self-improvement.

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猿も木から落ちる

saru mo ki kara ochiru

Even experts can make mistakes in their own field of expertise.