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Proverb / Kotowaza

苦しい時の神頼み

ReadingくるしいときのかみだのみRomajikurushii toki no kamidanomi

Turning to divine help only when in trouble, despite ignoring it at other times.

Praying to God only in times of distress

Quick Answer

Turning to divine help only when in trouble, despite ignoring it at other times.

Literal Image
Praying to God only in times of distress
How to Use It
Used to criticize someone's opportunistic attitude or to self-deprecatingly admit that one is only seeking help because they are desperate.

Meaning

This expression describes the selfish behavior of people who ignore spiritual or moral duties during good times, only to frantically seek help when facing a crisis. It serves as a reminder that sincere effort and consistency are more important than desperate, last-minute appeals.

Literal Image

Praying to God only in times of distress

How to Use It

Used to criticize someone's opportunistic attitude or to self-deprecatingly admit that one is only seeking help because they are desperate.

Tone

Carries a critical or humbling tone regarding human selfishness.

Examples

01

試験前に慌てて神社にお参りに行くなんて、まさに苦しい時の神頼みだ。

Rushing to a shrine to pray just before an exam is exactly what they mean by 'praying only in times of trouble.'

Learning Notes

Key Vocabulary

Estimated LevelN3Confidence: High
Estimate, not an official JLPT list

The vocabulary consists of simple words like 'kurushii' (painful/distress), 'toki' (time), and 'kami' (god), making the literal meaning easy to grasp.

苦しい

くるしい / kurushii

painful; distressing; difficult

神頼み

かみだのみ / kamidanomi

praying to God for help; calling on God

Usage Profile

NeutralCriticalHumblingCautionary

Misread Risk

It is not a literal instruction to pray when in trouble, but rather a commentary on the selfishness of doing so only at that time.

Search As

苦しい時の神頼みくるしいときのかみだのみkurushii toki no kamidanomikurushiitokinokamidanomikurushii-toki-no-kamidanomikurushiitoki-no-kamida-no-mikurushiitoki no kamida no mi

Kanji in This Proverb

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Index

Topics, Situations, and Tags

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Topics

Human NatureCharacter and VirtueCause and Consequence
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Situations

Teach HumilityDescribe Human Nature
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Tags

⚔️Life & General Wisdom🎌Japanese Culture🧠Philosophy

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Published
2024-09-14
Updated
2026-05-08
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