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Proverb / Kotowaza

人を見て法を説け

ReadingひとをみてのりをとけRomajihito o mite nori o toke

Adapt your teaching or message to the listener's character and understanding.

Observe the person and expound the Law.

Quick Answer

Adapt your teaching or message to the listener's character and understanding.

Literal Image
Observe the person and expound the Law.
Closest Equivalent
Suit the action to the word, the word to the action.
How to Use It
Used in educational or professional contexts to remind someone that their explanation should be adjusted for the audience, such as simplifying difficult concepts for beginners.

Meaning

This proverb advises that when you teach or speak to others, you should first assess their personality, level of understanding, and current circumstances. By tailoring the delivery method to the individual, the message becomes significantly more effective. It highlights the importance of empathy and flexibility in successful communication.

Literal Image

Observe the person and expound the Law.

Equivalent Proverbs

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Close✓ Reviewed

Suit the action to the word, the word to the action.

Suggests fitting the delivery or behavior to the specific situation.

How to Use It

Used in educational or professional contexts to remind someone that their explanation should be adjusted for the audience, such as simplifying difficult concepts for beginners.

Tone

Reflects Buddhist principles of tailored communication.

Examples

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子供に難しい言葉で説明しても伝わらない。人を見て法を説けというように、相手に合わせた言葉を選ぼう。

Explaining things to children using difficult words won't get the message across. As the saying goes, 'observe the person and expound the Law'—we should choose words that suit the listener.

Learning Notes

Key Vocabulary

Estimated LevelN2Confidence: Medium
Estimate, not an official JLPT list

Uses verbs, but the specific reading 'nori' for 'law' and the classical imperative 'toke' require more advanced knowledge.

ひと / hito

person

見て

みて / mite

observing / seeing

のり / nori

Law / Buddhist teachings

説け

とけ / toke

preach / expound

Usage Profile

NeutralCautionaryMoralizing

Usage note: It is advice for the speaker, not a critique of the listener’s ability.

Misread Risk

The term 'nori' here specifically refers to teachings or methods, not legal statutes.

Search As

人を見て法を説けひとをみてのりをとけhito o mite nori o tokehitoomitenoriotokehito-o-mite-nori-o-toke

Kanji in This Proverb

Related Proverbs

Entry available郷に入っては郷に従えgou ni itte wa gou ni shitagaeWhen in a new place, follow the local customs and manners.

Origin

This expression originates from Buddhist teachings. It is based on the concept of 'Taiki-seppo' (expounding the law according to capacity), describing how Shakyamuni (the Buddha) tailored his teachings to match the intellectual capacity and specific situation of each listener. In this proverb, 'nori' (法) refers to the Buddhist Law or sacred teachings.

Index

Topics, Situations, and Tags

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Topics

Speech and CommunicationStrategy and ActionSocial Relationships
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Situations

Give Life AdviceWarn Someone
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Tags

🎯Strategy & Tactics👥Social Dynamics❤️Relationships

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Published
2026-03-15
Updated
2026-05-08
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